Russia is famous for its amazing hospitality and incredible treatment of guests, in a way that makes a humble Midwesterner blush. I experienced this spirit several times, but I’d like to highlight two instances where I was really overwhelmed by kindness, notably from two non-Russian cultures.
Living in the dorm has been great, because our floor is inhabited by some really cool people. A large group of students from Kazakhstan lives on 7th with us, and they’ve kindly taken us under their wing. They’re always willing to stop and chat, asking how we are and helping us with homework if we don’t understand something. Interestingly, I bonded with my friend Diliya over English. I helped her with an application letter and from then on, we were buddies. Her birthday took place a couple weeks ago; unfortunately I missed the first get-together, but she invited me to a second celebration in her room with some of her oldest friends. I was out on an excursion but she said that I should come any time, even if I was late. Taking that to heart, I went over to her room as soon as I got back, and was immediately greeted by a room full of people. I presented my measly offering of chocolates in a bag I had brought from Minnesota. Red as a beet, I took a place at the table, and the festivities continued. Diliya made sure I always had juice, and my plate was loaded up with cookies, cake, and other sweet treats. The evening consisted of sing-along songs (which Diliya looked up the words to so that I could participate in the ones I didn’t know) and games. I tried to express my gratitude in a toast to the hostess, and I hope I was able to convey even one-fourth of it. Everyone there showed me great kindness, and I was honored to be a part of her after-birthday celebration.

It turns out you can fit a lot of people in a little dorm room. Photo credit: Diliya
I also had the immense pleasure of being a guest at the home of our beloved language assistant Diana, where three of us met with her mother Natalia, grandmother, and friend Ira. The ladies had prepared a “light” [their words] feast for us; the Russian New Year special “selyodka pod shuboi” (herring under sliced carrots, eggs, eggplant, held together with mayonnaise), delicious meat topped with tomato slices and cheese, mashed potatoes, bread, salmon, sliced meats and cheeses, vegetables… it was incredible.

The “small” feast.
We wanted to help clean up, but Natalia and Ira wouldn’t hear it. The five of us (and Mira, the fluffiest, most beautiful dog in Moscow) bundled up our dessert cakes and had a picnic in the forest near their home.

Mira
There, we talked about politics and ruminated on life, then packed up and went back to the house to have tea. Many-course meals are a Russian tradition that I could certainly get used to at home. Even though it was getting late, our hosts didn’t utter a word about us leaving, and they would have let us stay all night. Natalia walked us back to the metro and we all embraced warmly, our hearts and souls utterly refreshed after such a lovely day.

The three of us with Natalia and Mira.
I hope that when I get older and have a place, I’ll be able to receive guests with such skill and good-naturedness.